Saturday, July 31, 2010

How to live a better life?

1. Accept Your Mistakes

You’re human. We, humans, are making mistakes. Accept what you did wrong and try to do better next time. No need to punish yourself forever. In fact, accepting your mistakes is the only way to make them disappear.

2. Accept Your Friends Mistakes

Maybe you got hurt by somebody. Happens. Just accept it and deal with it. People are making mistakes and if you can accept that for yourself, accept it for your friends too. In the end, all you need from them is their love.

3. Create A New Habit

We’re doing a lot of stuff on autopilot. Try to integrate in this category new things you want to attract into your life. Habits are powerful. Harness their energy for your own good. Start by creating a habit in 15 days.

4. Build Self Discipline

Don’t wait for other people to impose discipline on you. Start early. Create your own discipline. Although it sounds a little bit harsh, self discipline is a facilitator for many things in your life. It’s hard to get but great to have.

5. Keep A Journal

Write down you feelings, your ideas, your goals, your activity. Journaling is by far one of the most useful things I’ve done to change my life for the best. It works in such a silent, yet effective way. All you need is pen and paper.

6. Learn To Take Risks

Your life may be so boring and fade because… err, you made it like this? When was the last time your tried something really difficult? When was the last time you challenged the odds doing something risky? Do it now.

7. Be Better, Not Perfect

Striving too much for perfection will ruin your life. It will wipe out all those little imperfections which are making you… human. Being better, on the other side, is rewarding. Look back at the yesterday you and just say: I’m better!

8.Try Something New

Maybe you’re sad because you’re bored. Have you ever thought about that? Just reach out and try something completely new. Go for a challenge, learn a new sport, pick a different restaurant or go for a comedy movie (if you’re the drama type). Just try it.

9.Learn To Ignore

I think they should be teaching this one in schools. We’re so focused on so many topics and think we have to do so many stuff, that our life is literally clogged with stuff. It’s good to do stuff, but learning to ignore stuff is much better.

10.45. Stop Solving The Wrong Problems

You are not here to witness the bad things in your life. Nor the performance in itself. You are here to enjoy a journey. To become aware, To grow. So, stop solving the wrong problem and focus on what really matters.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Demons of Ignorance.

i dont mean this blog as my diary instead. btw, i read the newspaper last morning about 'no matter what happen he is still your father'

human beings thinking are all the same.
the article there said when we were 5 years old daddy knows everything. when we were 10, daddy knows alot, but then, when we are somewhere in teenagers age, we think that daddy knows nothing. and when we are 25, daddy knows a little bit, and then we are 45, 'i wish i could ask daddy'.

teenagers thought that they are right about everything. and thats what happened to me. i've been through all that at my age now. some teenagers are still didnt think out of the box. from there, i realize that all teenagers are stupid. they can't really think properly. :l

as the matter of fact, they are also dont realize their mistakes. i was upset, upset with it. i feel guilty. and i dont know what more stupid things im going to do next. because i did a lot of stupid things before that makes my parents really upset with it. i hope i could handle it.

and to all teenagers, please dont do anything from what your heart said. it will ruins everything. listen to your parents! they are more experienced people in life. if you dont believe it, you think, how old are they? and how OLD are you? they knows everything. :)

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Sweet Caroline




Where it began, I can't begin to know when
But then I know it's growing strong
Oh, wasn't the spring, whooo
And spring became the summer
Who'd believe you'd come along

Hands, touching hands, reaching out
Touching me, touching you
Oh, sweet Caroline
Good times never seem so good
I've been inclined to believe it never would


I really love this song since the first time i heard this song. :)
so peaceful. <3

GLEE

really addicted to glee! Cory Monteith.
love the songs! awesomeee. totally addictive. :)

thanks to Raja and Anita. Love u guys. the BOMB! ;)

Update.

its been a while since i didnt update this blog.
lot of things happenn.

-got a new little sister. Lydia Sofea. :)
-once got a crush on this guy, but damn, he's so ARROGANT!
-im rarely updating this blog.
-me and anita talks alot.
-my friends visiting my little sister. thanks for the present Iffa. :) we like it.
-koko day, maze house; AWESOME! ghost house(form 6) funny.
-4 aktif's student has been transferred to 5 bersih's. they got OUR class.
-hate it!
-met alot of annoying people. Luqman Mahfar. -.-'
-entered an audition for choir.
-sang dont stop believing, got the audition! im the school's choir team.
-and 'they're' joining. hate it. annoying. meluat. why? ;l
-need to talk? wtf?! confessing? she's really convincing.
-he had such quiet eyes. i did not realize. :P
-talk bahasa kelantan with Raja,Nadhir and Shey. FUNNY!
-im loving my friends.
-life's been kind to me these lately. thanks alot.

thanks. <3